Look at the big picture when it comes to relationships. What do you want a few months of lust and desire or a life time of a love and companionship? God puts people in our lives to be our friends, even the other sex can be just friends. Believe it or not all relationships were not meant to be sexual. When God puts people in your life there is a reason and you should never look at the other person for our pleasure. That is wicked and God never will bring another into your life just for sexual desires. Guard your hearts and look for a pure heart , honesty and truth in your relationships. These things follow Christ’s children. Would rather have a life long friend than a fling with the one that is not there for your good. Seek His face always.